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Feb 6, This Girl Lived With Her Ex For 2 Months After Breaking Up, And He of how he treated her on her b-day (while they were still dating probably). Aug 30, Your girlfriend—a woman you've only been dating for eight months—is prioritizing her violent-when-drunk ex-boyfriend's housing needs over. May 10, When your partner is still living with his/her ex-lover, things do tend to get problematic. I have been dating X for half a year. We have.
Savage Love Letter of the Day: I started dating my girlfriend back in Januarythings were going wonderfully until this weekend.Signs she still loves her ex
She owns her house and rents out rooms to three individuals. One of her tenants is a past boyfriend. I've know about this all along and didn't have any issues with their living arrangements. On Friday night, her ex was home and was super drunk when I arrived at her place.
He said he wanted to show me something in his room and we went down to his room and he pulled a knife on me and asked me a bunch of questions about my current girlfriend, aka his ex and current landlord. We both left for my place and stayed there until Sunday. On Sunday she sent him a text message, saying that he has thirty days to move out. He said he was sorry for being so drunk and claimed he didn't remember anything about that night and asked for a second chance.
She stood her ground and told him that he had to move out. She came back out saying there was no answer, "possibly they went for a walk.
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I then asked her if she meant C, her ex, she said "yes" and I thanked her for her time and I went home. I waited for her to finally text me and I told her I knew C was still there, and that he hadn't left.
That her landlord seems to be under the impression you two are still together, and that I am deeply hurt.
She apologize profusely, claiming that she wants him to leave but she's afraid he will kill himself. He hasn't had a job in 5 years, refuses to get one, and any time she gathers the guts to tell him to leave, he'll yes her to death until the time approaches and he'll threaten suicide. She sends me pictures of all of his stuff around the couch, blankets and pillows, and swears he sleeps on the couch.
I tell her I can't do this, and we cease talking again. I break, we begin talking. She comes out and admits she doesn't know when she'll be able to get him out. I offer as I do many times before, to come there and remove him myself but she won't let me. She says it's something she has to do herself, and I believe it's because he's going to tell me that they are still very intimate and very in love.
Either way, I let her do her, and here we are 2 years total later, 4 months since I've decided to give this a go again, and he's still there. Two days ago I had an hour long phone conversation with her Mother about our history, where we've been, where we are, and where I feel it's going. She reassures me that she, my Girlfriend, loves me to death. That I'm all she talks about and how excited for the future she is. How C, the ex, is mentally unstable and she fears for her Daughter's safety.
I should pause to tell you she has 3 cats, 2 of which he brought with him into the relationship. She loves these cats more than anything in the World, and she's afraid if she kicks him out, he will take them. Her father is deathly allergic to cats, and cannot have them in the house, or else she would have moved in with them. The other thing is, she is exactly her Mother's daughter, and she is afraid that he will harm himself, or her, and she just can't live with that if anything was to happen.
They've been working on getting him benefits, Government assistance, but every time it comes time for him to take the reigns, he never does. Today was the day that I suppose put me in the mood I'm in currently. She usually comes in every Thursday, unless the weather is particularly bad, which it has been of course on the days we are supposed to hang out, so she cancels a lot. A few times this had lead to useless fights on my end, fueled by my disappointment and how fed up I am with the situation.
That I could just take a train out to Long Island and spend the night with her, so no one has to drive, but I can't because her ex still lives with her. It's Thursday, and she has to go to work. She's a manager in retail and a lot of her employees have been asked to cover other stores.
Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Girlfriend Lives With Her Ex-Boyfriend And That's Not The Problem
She says she has to go in from 8a-4p, and that she will come straight here after work. About an hour ago she shoots me a text saying she's so tired. We keep chatting, but she keeps driving home the point she's so tired. I tell her to just go home and get some rest then, it's no sense in driving all the way here if you're so exhausted. This is where it started to irk me; so what? I sold my car to put toward my living expenses here, plus the Subway is so fucking awesome that I don't need one, so I can't drive out to her.
Not that it'd matter, I can't stay at her place anyway. The thing that has me boiling is that she could drive here just to sleep, and I'd be fine with that.
I'm a [29M] dating a [26F] who still lives with her ex-boyfriend : relationship_advice
I love her, I love her awake, sleeping, crying, smiling, cheating I just love her. Plus, she won't stay the night because she doesn't want to have to explain to him why she never came home on account of the fact that she hasn't told him out of fear he might snap. I share the same fear, so I agree with her but at the same time it's frustrating. You can't come sleep here because of your ex.