14 People Describe Their Scary Stories About Creepy Stalkers
Jan 28, Lahnmann, a University graduate student from Chicago, never filed a Throughout the time Joe stalked Lahnmann, she continued to date other people. Joe's voice -- but he started to leave strange messages on her phone. Jul 19, One of my older brothers had a stalker when I was younger. She had dated my brother's then girlfriend (who is also a total psycho, but that's another story.) and was .. He was a nice enough guy and he took me out on a date. Everything . I was so young and all of my friends never took it seriously. I really. Nov 14, A little digital due diligence pre-date is just good sense these days. The point of this story is that you should stalk for love not for money, and never for research it's probably best to do a little less online stalking and have.
In the first throes of romance there are three little words it's probably best to avoid. No matter how googly-eyed you may be about someone, admitting "I Googled you" too soon is a sure-fire way to nip a relationship in the bud.
So, by the way, is admitting: However, while honesty may be the best policy when it comes to sexually transmitted diseases or very bad bands, the same isn't true when it comes to online stalking.
I mean, um, online "research". I mean, come on, the first stage of any modern courtship is "pre-connaissance" isn't it? A little digital due diligence pre-date is just good sense these days. But good sense isn't always good manners and there is still something of a stigma attached to admitting you know more about a potential paramour than you really should.
So, to help you navigate the thorny world of stalking netiquette, here is a handy guide to the dos and don'ts of creeping without being creepy: Don't be a professional stalker For reasons I can't fully explain I accepted a friend request from my dentist on Facebook and LinkedIn. Within a matter of hours he'd endorsed me for "digital strategy" on LinkedIn, which was flattering if somewhat confusing. He'd also "liked" a number of my Facebook photos, pausing to comment on one: But let's talk periodontal pocket reduction at your next visit!!
The point of this story is that you should stalk for love … not for money, and never for molars. Don't compile a dating dossier There's a point at which a little light stalking goes from "research" into "psychopathic behaviour". The point at which this line is crossed is up for debate. Nevertheless if manila folders are ever involved you can be pretty certain you're in weirdo territory. I was so young and all of my friends never took it seriously.
The stalker and the woman who refused to give in
Thinking about it just makes me really uncomfortable. One time I was home alone and I used to rarely lock the door I lived with my mother at the time so I went for a shower completely unaware that I was in danger. I finished with my shower when I noticed a presence. Someone was under my bed. I might need you to pick something up.
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I need help with something. I tried to not show him I was scared of him. I need some time to think about it. Would you like some tea?
Sure enough, someone knocked on my door. I explained to them the situation while my ex claimed I was lying. He did some time in state prison and now I have a restraining order against him. I never go to sleep before I check under the bed and make sure every door is locked. They manipulated me into dating them, then forced me into having sex with them. Then used to pictures to further blackmail me. This went on for 7 months. Before my mother found them dragging me out of the front door.
He would never do anything too drastic, a few phone calls here and there with no speaking. Following her, making her feel uncomfortable.
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And whenever we called the police they said there was really nothing they could do, due to the lack of evidence. The alarm system scared him off, but we called the police per usual and they said they would look into it. I felt that they were taking too long with the whole situation and decided to take matters into my own hands.
Anyways, we devised a plan. My girlfriend would leave the house alone and she would tell me if he was tailing her. If he was, I would tail him. While my ex went into the local pharmacy, he parked and waited for her.Terrifying Crazy Ex & Stalker Stories (Valentine's Day Special)
In a fit of rage, I walked up to his car, opened his door and beat the living shit out of him. The guy who was stalking her was, get this, a guy who had a crush on her in high school. Not an ex, not a lover, but a deranged freak. I still have nightmares about the door incident to this day though. I was 17 when this all happened. There was this one woman who from afar seemed normal, but up close something was a little thing was off. Her makeup was a bit weird.
She would wear bright red lipstick, sometimes yellow or bright pink and always a bit messy. She always wore the same thing and walked around like she was slightly confused. I remember the first time she entered the store. She bought a 30 cent pack of gum, with a 10 dollar bill.
I would tell you where I hid my million dollars, but I have the power to not tell you. She would enter with a silent smile, walk round the store without breaking eye contact and leave in silence.
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Just went in just to stare. I told my friends about her and they agreed she was creepy as fuck, so I started carrying around pepper spray just in case.
Then she began to actively stalk. I had it up to here. The final straw was when she broke into my house a few days later, and I have webcam footage of this.
I was ready to take a shower on night when I heard the front door open form all the way in my room. I wanted to see if you were in here, do you have a phone I could borrow?