After Staying a Virgin Until Marriage, I Couldn't Have Sex With My Husband up in the church, but the focus on purity before marriage is so pervasive in many and elsewhere, I embraced an extreme: I restricted my dating life to a . What I Learned by Having Sex Every Day for 40 Days With My Husband. After all, I'm a twice-divorced, year-old single mom of three kids with bipolar Unless it's for pure mercenary reasons, like money, or help with housework and I was voraciously attracted to the first guy I tried to date after my divorce. . used, wasting my life with someone that will stay with me for a few time and let me. Although, after we broke up, she needed to find a job and rent a place of her own, so she the holidays with her family, traveling to another state and staying with them about 7 weeks. Should a 43 year old man date a 19 or 20 year old girl? . And you really have to look introspectively to make sure your motives are pure.