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Young people think, 'If I'm in a gang no one can touch me because I'll have friends to back me up.
He had been committed of knife-point robbery and she had been found guilty of common assault. To begin with she had a "normal" relationship. I'd go and see him but nothing major [happened].
Boys are paranoid, they think their girlfriends will set them up. At first it involved taking messages, then she was asked to help cut up the drugs.
She knew things had changed.
If I got caught [with the gun] I would have said no comment and took the bird with me. You don't love him but you're made to believe you do. It's all very fiction, but it's not real love … you don't realise how deep you're in until it's too late. I couldn't go to my mum's house and when I did see her she had to meet me somewhere. If I was seen by myself something would have happened to me. I didn't want to do it towards the end. But I was more scared because that's when people turn against you.
You know everything in the area. Who's selling drugs, who's got firearms. Boys would get a pitbull and train it to bite, they'd batter people, rob them for their watches. He'd tell me I wasn't being a good girlfriend.
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Some people have a breaking point, others don't. I was with him for another three months and he kept hitting me and throwing stuff at me.
She moved into his new house but realised she had reached her breaking point. She left clothes and other belongings there to avoid suspicion and walked away, changing her mobile number and deleting her Facebook account. The pair have not met for two years but Lisa says that her old life still catches up with her. I had his friends coming up to me saying if I opened my mouth I knew the deal. So back to the date… I drive up the driveway and well about 3 patch members walked out with him.
This driveway did make me second guess myself because well it was long, heaps of bush and well hidden. I locked the doors. We started driving to Kmart whilst having a smoke. Which did actually make me laugh.
He had to stand tall and not slouch. We get into Kmart and I go to home goods part. We were getting on well and he had some good chat too. So all in all it was bad. This is where everything changed. We then go to the check out and I go to pay and this dude has the audacity to ask me if I can buy him a drink.
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I thought ya know what fuck it. So I brought him a drink. We walk back to the car and then go to find the warehouse. As we are there. Sure, enough it was a gang tattoo.
I then realised how far he was into the gang. I asked a few questions about it which he answered. We then proceeded to go to warehouse. He them simply decides to open up a packet of chips and eat it. At this point I just walked off. Like imagine if he had got caught. I would most likely get in shit for it even though I had nothing to do with it.
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We then go to leave because I simply found what I wanted. Yet again I do not share this mind-set. Anyone who knows me knows I am no racist and I believe everybody should be treated equal no matter their race, gender or sexual orientation. We are simply equal to the next person.
We hop in the car and I drive back to a different address. At this point I was actually scared. Just the way he said it. I did for a split-second fear for my safety. He hopped out the car and I locked the doors and drove off.
I called my friend Luna and told her about the date. Do I think he is a bad person? Do I think gang members are bad people? Nope I do not.